«It is necessary to show this animated cartoon to each girl,
At five years' age!
Perhaps though then you grow fond
Also learn to prepare!!! »

So one young man was indignant, having looked a cartoon film about the infant rat-cook from Paris. The infant rat adored to prepare, and it have skilfully shown. And indignation of the guy could be understood. Again «the girlfriend of its days severe» tried to make these days still surovee by means of meal of fast preparation. Certainly, any person in senses from pelmeni will not refuse. But only not the one who has thrown all delights of a barchelor life (including invariable fried eggs in the mornings and pelmeni in the evenings) for the sake of a long-awaited family cosiness (including – house MEAL).

Almost each girl who has entered into age of the bride, knew the gold rule of the ideal wife saying, that for happiness in marriage it is necessary to be: first - a secular lioness in a drawing room, secondly - the cook on kitchen and thirdly - the courtesan in bed.
And, if before wedding you piously believed that three components will be enough after the lapse of a honeymoon it has appeared: the traditional recipe of family happiness morally obsolete, and on change to it has come the new.
Trying to correspond to all three definitions, women at all forget that men – beings terrestrial, and would be desirable them frequently one - simple understanding.

Think, it will be a question of such rare hobby, how cutting out by a fret saw? No, about things, much more prosy.
«My saw» - widespread enough definition of second half, and in bolshej to degree it is given to us, women. Most likely you heard time and again in the address from the husband or the child a phrase: «Well how many it is possible to saw me?» Or said her to the grandmother or mum, the charter to act in a role of "a magic log» from which relatives tried to plane unsuccessfully Buratino. … it is necessary to recognise: with not palatable, but, alas, the widespread phenomenon house pilenija to face it was possible to each of us. As whom - "tool" or "victim" to act - no special value has, since. In both cases - pleasant it is not enough.
Whether so we in it are guilty?

Each woman herself chooses for itself that time to leave the decree and to continue the labour activity. For someone this half a year, for someone ones and a half, and for someone and whole three. But, as a rule, there is this decision when pleasure from absence of working duties and what achievements that of the high purposes, is replaced by weariness from all-consuming house vanity. After all all time to be at home with the child is, certainly, it is fine … but after all all is not limited to it. As a rule, on shoulders of the woman who are in the decree, heavy cargo all house duties lay down. And this work not such simple as can seem from the party. Without days off throughout several years, occupying all free time these washings, cooking, cleaning, at all deprive of any possibility to grow intellectually, especially at the beginning. Dialogue with people becomes isolated on a circle of same mummies-stay-at-home, and is reduced only to discussion of the best techniques of education and new achievements of favourite fumes. With other people it becomes for some reason difficult to find common language, and in addition to all also all is material not always perfectly, as the salary of the husband what it would not be, it all the same only one!

And here, there comes the moment when in the past there are the heavy sleepless nights cut zubki, children's gripes and your child quite independently moves on apartment on shank's mare and even gives out tirades from a series: «mum, you represent …» In a head there is quite reasonable question on an exit for work. Having weighed all pro's and con's, and having overcome oppressive doubts, taki dare at this not a simple step.

Actually all of us are practically ideal wives.
For the sake of the beloved it is overcome the congenital hatred to kitchen and we study to prepare. Even to prepare tolerably.
For the sake of the beloved it is passed each two weeks to steam of hundreds kilometres – only because he can die from spermotoksikoza. After all in the street the spring and crowds of nice girls, and it loves us, misses and stores fidelity.
For the sake of the beloved we get into debt, - to arrange the present holiday in its day of a birth and to bring it in new, still city absolutely unknown to us.
And that fact that all is done it, far does not mean, that we have nothing to be engaged or that we try to adhere it to ourselves. It is as though banal did not sound – we really simply want, that to the favourite person it was good.
But it is difficult to be ideal when there are they … Girlfriends.

The Internet, is today not only mass-media and the Big encyclopaedia, but also a communication facility for acquaintances, dialogue, communities. Dialogue on the Internet name democratic and free. There is a set of sites where, filling the questionnaire, you depict an image of the partner to which wished to talk. Such act has some purposes. Or you actually search for the significant other, or simply thirst dialogue. In the first case the real meeting will be desirable result. And then the Internet plays a role of the usual matchmaker and helps to pull together people. In the second – it only replaces real contacts, and such conversations are end in itself and to what does not conduct.
Perhaps, modern dialogue on the Internet is a revival of love correspondence which was popular in far XIX century.

In days of feudal lords and the Middle Ages are was norm, during the Soviet period is it became unacceptable, now it is in the order of things.

It is literally about 20 years ago, your husband be more younger you years on 15, or is more senior on 35 – at you would look askance and whispered behind the back. Presently is becomes norm, and the number of such marriages grows.

Whether and spouses in such marriage are happy, and whether the age difference is felt?